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A More Excellent Way

In 1 Corinthians 12 and 14, we discover the church in Corinth had been ranking Christians based on their spiritual gifts.  Spiritual gifts such as the gift of tongues and healing were thought to be better than other gifts.  People were separating themselves in a pseudo-class system based on the gifts they displayed.  Paul rebukes the church and reminds them that all these gifts come from the Holy Spirit.  Even though they are displayed differently each gift is an expression of the one Spirit.  Paul uses our physical bodies as an illustration.  Each body part is different, however all of them are important and useful.  The same is true for the distinct spiritual gifts.  The church needs all of them to function properly,  no one gift is better than another.

As you read through the passages you might notice there is a break in his discussion of this topic.  At the end of chapter 12, Paul tells the church that he will show them still a more excellent way.  There is something even greater than spiritual gifts, a way to more fully experience the Lord and express Him to those around us. That way is LOVE!

1 Corinthians 13 is thought of as the love chapter.  Often this passage is used in weddings to express the type of love we want to bestow on our mate, however this passage is not just good for weddings.  Paul was not thinking about marital love when he wrote this.  He was thinking about the love that Christians should have for one another.  Remember, Jesus spoke often about how we should love each other.  John 13:34-35; John 15:9-17; Matthew 5:43-48; and Matthew 22:37-39 are a few places where Jesus speaks about love.  He commands us to love everyone: fellow believers, neighbors, and even our enemies.  I cannot help but think that Paul had some of these words in mind as he wrote 1 Corinthians 13.  It is a great expression of how we are to love others.

First Paul says that we can do all kinds of works for the Lord but if we do not have love then we have nothing, this is a strong statement. Paul puts everyone on notice that how we do ministry is as important as the ministry we do.  He tells us that we can even give our life for Jesus but if our motivation is not love then we do it in vain.  This tracks with many other scriptures from Paul and the other apostles (1 John 2-4; 1 Peter 4:8; Colossians 3:14; Romans 13:8). They all make it clear that love is the primary attitude when it comes to living out our Christian faith.

Paul then shows us what love looks like.  The list in verses 4-7 are very convicting.  I can recall very vividly where I have failed to love people in this way.  I am extremely thankful that sanctification is an ongoing process.  Learning to love others in a Christlike way does not come to us naturally.  We must rely on the transformative power of the gospel.  Love is a fruit of the spirit so only those that are saved and submitting to the spirit will be able to live this way.

The challenge for our modern church is the same as it was for the church in Corinth– to stop looking for ways to puff ourselves up and make ourselves important.  Our charge is to love everyone as Christ has loved us.  Paul helps us by putting it on the “bottom shelf” so that we can understand what love looks like.  As a Christian, loving others with
Christlike love is the most important thing we can do.  None of what we do means anything unless we do it with love.  This is the more excellent way– the way of Christ.

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Student Life - May 2024

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Recently, I watched a video of Nabeel Qureshi giving his testimony on stage at a church. And while he gave his testimony, I must admit I was incredibly moved by it. If you don’t know who Nabeel is, he is the author of a great book called “Seeking Allah, Finding Jesus”. In his book, he explains his early life growing up and gives his testimony converting to Christianity. What’s incredible about his testimony is the intense journey it took for him to come to believe. Nabeel was born in California in 1983 and was raised by his family as a devout Ahmadi Muslim. And for his early life, he remained a devout Muslim, following in its practices and learning early on that America was a primarily Christian country. This caused Nabeel to need strong apologetics for his faith. And that is exactly what he did, he debated and argued with many Christians during his life, never faulting from the faith he had been born into. 

But one day, while he was in college, he was involved in a public speaking and debate tournament. And while he was on this trip, he shared a hotel room with a friend named David. Now, what stood out to Nabeel was he saw David reading his Bible. And Nabeel took this opportunity to question David about his faith and debate yet another Christian, as he had done hundreds of times. However, this was the first time Nabeel had met an actual challenge. And as they discussed and debated each other’s opinions on Christianity that night, Nabeel was left challenged by David to research more into Christianity. This was because any of the arguments or points Nabeel tried to use to debunk Christianity, David refuted them. He had a firm apologetic for his faith. And after this debate, Nabeel had become a Christian! 

Actually, that is not what happened. What’s incredible to me about Nabeel’s testimony is that it took him around three years after this conversation to convert to Christianity. What filled this time was incredible research into our Christian faith and history as well as incredible research into his own faith and history. And after he discovered that Christianity is true and his current faith was not, he was broken. Not only did he have to walk away from the faith he trusted in for most of his life, but he also had to walk away from the life he had built thus far. Besides his career, which was in the medical field, his entire life revolved around Islam - his family, social status, future careers, everything. To explain this further, in Islam if someone leaves the faith in apostasy (the formal disaffiliation from, abandonment of, or renunciation of a religion by a person) they are dishonored, dishonoring their entire family and family members before them, and are even allowed to be killed by this decision, according to Islamic law. Sadly, and understandably, all of this terrified Nabeel and he goes on to explain in his testimony that he spent many nights just crying. 

Now, the reason why this testimony extremely impacted me was for two reasons. First, the amazing explanation of the cost to follow Christ. And second, the comfort of a friend walking with him. To elaborate on the first reason, Nabeel explains that he did not want to forsake everything he had to follow Christ, but was reminded by the words of Christ: “Strive to enter through the narrow door. For many, I tell you, will seek to enter and will not be able” Luke 13:24. Nabeel understood that the price to enter in through the narrow door would cost him everything and entering into this door would not be easy. But Nabeel did not want to lose his family, especially his relationship with his parents. Then again Nabeel was reminded of the words of Christ: “Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me” Matthew 10:37. This among many other works of Christ and Scripture led Nabeel to accept Christ as His Messiah. However, his friend David also walked with Nabeel during his long 3 year fight with Christianity. 

Thus, the second reason I love this testimony is because of the faith of a good friend. David knew this would not be an easy conversion for Nabeel, even in that hotel room. So you can see that David relied on the Spirit and Christ to do all of the work, and David would just walk with Nabeel during this time. And while David did this, he loved Nabeel as Christ would. Nabeel states in his testimony that he was incredibly thankful for David’s friendship. He said that if some random person told him to give up everything and follow Christ, he would think that person was crazy. But, if someone loves you and walks with you the entire time and tells you the cost for following Christ, it at least makes it easier. David’s friendship and faithfulness to Nabeel was instrumental to Nabeel’s walk and eventual faith in Christ. David’s words as a loving friend with Christ’s love in David strengthened Nabeel during what was at the time an impossible choice to make during his walk to faith. 

So, church family, I write this testimony in my article to hopefully encourage you all with an amazing testimony of God’s work in someone’s life, but also to show an example of the importance of relationships. Absolutely the price we have to pay to submit to Christ as Lord of our life is hard, but it is oh so worth it when we gain the love of the Father and Christ our Lord. And the relationships we build with others is so important when considering our witness for Christ. We truly cannot offer anything of our own to someone to bring them to Christ. If we just show them Christ’s love, explain the Scriptures, and walk with them patiently, then we allow the One who is able to do all of the work. And just like for Nabeel, who for him it took around 3 years, Christ was able to work in him and redeem him. Praise God for the tremendous work that was done in Nabeel’s life and let it serve as an amazing testimony for us to grow from and to celebrate!

If you want to know more about Nabeel’s testimony, here is the link to the amazing video of Nabeel sharing his testimony: 
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-aqGwE7ZFo0

To God be the Glory!

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