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Student Ministry - January

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Dear Church Family,

Another year has already passed, and, if you’re like me, you probably feel like last year flew by while simultaneously creeping along. I don’t understand how time can work like that, but I do understand that every year we tend to look back and ask ourselves how we can make things better. We come up with “New Years Resolutions” of all kinds. Most often they are things like going to the gym more or being more disciplined in one area or another. We often think of things we can do that we hope will make our lives better. And there’s nothing necessarily wrong with that. Many times we do need to make changes. Maybe we do need to eat better. Maybe we do need to study more. Maybe we do need to read more books. But have you ever thought that maybe instead of doing more we actually just need to do less?

Consider the possibility that the most effective improvement to our lives would come with proper prioritization of our time. Seriously, how much time do you spend doing things that wouldn’t even make your top ten priority list? Do you feel like your time is spent in proper proportion to what your top priorities are? The truth is, the use of our time will tell us what our priorities are. What if you were to sit down and write out the ten things you spend most of your time doing throughout the week in the order of how much time you spend on each thing. Do you think that list would reflect what you would want your priorities to be? Likely you will find that some things in your life take up more time than you would want them to. A non-negotiable would be something like work. That will certainly take more time than you want it to. Within that, however, I would hope that providing essentials for you and your family would be a fairly high priority. But what about the time that is solely at your discretion? We often feel like there are many things we “have” to do. But do we really? How often do we sacrifice truly important things for the sake of lesser joys?

How much time do we waste on more-or-less trivial matters when the true priorities of life are left unattended? The Bible actually has much to say about this topic. In Luke 10, Martha was very busy attending to things she thought was most important, while her sister sat at the feet of Jesus. When she complained to Jesus about it, He responded, “Martha, Martha, you are anxious and troubled about many things, but one thing is necessary. Mary has chosen the good portion, which will not be taken away from her.” Similarly Psalm 127:2 tells us that “It is in vain that you rise up early and go late to rest, eating the bread of anxious toil; for he gives to his beloved sleep.” It seems to me that God desires for us to spend our time wisely on the most important things while trusting Him with the lesser matters. There is much more that could be said on this, but for sake of space, let me just encourage you to take an inventory of your priorities this year. Is God and His will for your life at the top of the list? Are you spending your time on things that aren’t that important in the grand scheme of things? What are some things you can do less? How can you arrange your time so that you aren’t busy with “anxious toil,” but are instead choosing the “good portion” and enjoying life more fully? I pray the Lord would fill you with rest and enable you to focus on those things in life which truly matter. Do less better, not more anxiously.

Sincerely,
Brian Van Doren

 

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Student Ministry - December 2019

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Dear Church Family,

Recently the Student Ministry had its annual Disciple Now (DNow) weekend. Thirty-Eight students and around fifteen adult leaders came together to learn more about how to answer Jesus’ call to “Follow Me.” It was an absolute blast! The kids had so much fun playing games like “Gotcha” (a version of hide ’n’ seek), glow in the dark dodgeball, and even broom ball (hockey on ice, but without the skates). There were four main teaching sessions, one on Friday, two on Saturday, and one on Sunday before church. Each night the different groups of students stayed up late at host homes and played games and ate snacks. But most importantly we talked about what we were learning during our main sessions. I was with the Middle School guys, and we had some of the deepest and most relevant conversations (seriously, I was super proud of them). I know the other groups had great conversations too. If you know someone who  attended Disciple Now, you should ask them about it!

We learned that God has made everyone to be a follower… but followers of who or what? Followers of God of course. But the problem is that mankind, starting with Adam and Eve, decided to follow other things instead of God, which separates us from our loving creator. So God sent His son Jesus to come and restore us as followers of God. All we have to do is put our trust in His salvation. But we found out that Jesus has a “terms of service” for following Him (Luke 14:25-33, Mark 10:17-22). We have to let go of our life as He gives us His life. If we accept Jesus but have never let go of our life, then we are not truly restored back to God. This does not mean we have let go perfectly, but it does mean that we let go in the  major ways and we continue to grow in letting go of the control in our lives and continue to give our lives to Jesus.

Our last session on Sunday morning was all about how to start following Jesus, and, once you’ve started, what it looks like to keep following Jesus. Romans 10 tells us that if we simply confess Jesus as Lord (meaning we proclaim that Jesus is in charge of our lives now) and believe that God raised Him from the dead (meaning that we really believe that Jesus is alive in heaven and that we have an eternal home with Him) then we are saved. Continuing to follow Jesus looks like  Ephesians 4:1-3. We must practice humility, gentleness, patience, tolerance, love, and unity. Do you ever struggle to practice these things? Why is that? I guarantee that it has something to do with not letting go of something in your life and giving it to Jesus. Many times we struggle with these things because we haven’t fully let go of control in a certain area of our life. When you feel prideful, or when you are angry, or when you feel alone, or when someone annoys you… think about what it is that you need to give to Jesus so that He can help you be humble, or gentle, or patient, or united in love. Are you  practicing the art of letting go of control in your life and giving it to Jesus?

But here’s the point: Parents and grandparents, you must practice this yourself. We have taught these things to your   students, but you must show them how to do it. Students need to hear God’s word at church regularly, and also at home. But if they don’t see you attempting to live it out at home, then spiritual growth will be constantly impeded. Take heart! If you are struggling to follow Jesus in your life and home, remember that I am here to help and struggle with you. Please don’t hesitate to reach out to me. I am here to help you as we follow Jesus and lead our students to Christ together. You can do this through the power of Christ who strengthens you!

In Christ,
Brian Van Doren

 

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