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Student Ministry July 2017

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Dear Church Family,

In my last article letter I talked a lot about fighting sin by resting in the gospel. I truly believe that the    gospel is the answer to all of life’s problems. When we rest in Christ’s saving grace and become more like Him as He matures us in life, we become much more capable to overcome all the curveballs that life throws us. That is what it means to “do all things through Christ who strengthens” us. But how do we grow in Christ? How do we mature? Colossians 1:28 says that we are to proclaim Christ so that people would mature in the faith. Paul then writes in Colossians 3:16 to tell us that we must let the word of Christ richly dwell in us. We can easily perceive that Paul sees Christian fellowship and personal growth to be directly connected to scripture. Where can you find the “word of Christ?” Where does one find the gospel in order to proclaim it? It is God’s word that is constantly pointing us to Christ and His salvation. We must be intimately acquainted with God’s word, because Jesus is its main character. When we read God’s word to see how it points us to the Savior, even in the Old Testament, we will come to understand elements of the gospel that we never thought of before. God uses His word to point us to Christ and grow us in our faith. So what does this have to do with students?

Well, if you’re an adult reading this, I hope you will ask yourself how this reality affects your time in the word. But it certainly has implications for students and children as well. I find it very interesting that much of today’s student ministry does not encourage students to read the Bible. Nor does much of it really involve teaching scripture to the students. There are actually ministries that rarely even read from the Bible during their “Bible Study” times. This is a disservice to God’s people. Fortunately, there are many people who have seen this and are reacting to the lack of Bible use in student ministry. But our spiritual maturity is not simply an issue of the use of the Bible at church. That does make a huge impact, but what is even more influential to our maturity is our personal times of reading and reflection of God’s word. This is absolutely essential to the development and continued growth of children, youth, and even adults.  Parents should read Bible stories to their children and talk to them about Jesus at the youngest possible age. Children should be encouraged to read children’s Bible books as soon as they can read. Youth should be held accountable by their parents and friends to read the Bible and talk about how it points to Christ’s salvation and presence in their lives. Adults should be meeting with other adults to discuss what they have been reading and learning about the gospel from their personal times in the word. Imagine what God could do in our lives if we were devoting time for Him and His word daily!

But why am I writing about all of this again? Here’s why. I need to be reminded of these truths every day. I need to have     someone remind me to be in God’s word. And I don’t think I’m alone. I think our students really need help to stay focused on God in the midst of the craziness summer. They need their friends, families, and random people to invest in them and push them to be studying God’s word. I can assure you that we are proclaiming Christ in our student ministry and church-wide programing, but what I need your help with is the day-to-day exhortation to look to Christ in His word. If you see a student you know, ask them how their Bible studies/quite times are going. Encourage them to keep at it or start back up if they haven’t been doing quite times lately. Sometimes all we need is a caring friend to make a suggestion for us to live obediently for Christ. I hope this will leave you encouraged to help others grow in Christ (and to grow yourself!) simply by getting together with God in the scriptures.

Sincerely,

Brian Van Doren

 

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MAY 2017 STUDENT MINISTRY

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Dear Church Family,

   One thing that I have noticed in student ministry is how unique our place in history is. We live in a season of time where the younger generation and the older generation have virtually distinct experiences of life growing up. The older generation can remember a time when social media consisted of note passing in class. The younger generation thinks that notes is an app on the Iphone. We are in a unique place in time where human interaction and everyday life looks completely
different for one generation than it did for the other. This makes raising children complicated. It is difficult for a person to identify with the issues their child is going through when their life experiences growing up were of a completely different nature than that of their child. But, it is not because the issues are actually different. It is because the issues simply look different and are much more prevalent.

What I mean by this is not that the human heart has changed from one generation to the next. People are still born with a nature and inclination towards sin. But, the ways that sin can be achieved has changed drastically. Such much so that it almost seems like the youth of our time are experiencing life in a completely different way. The way this life is lived is through entertainment. Think about how much time this generation spends being entertained. In fact, I would argue that all the generations currently living are surrounded by and being overcome by a culture dedicated to entertainment. From young to old, who does not have a smart phone with a facebook account and youtube?  There are a few, but the vast majority of us are overwhelmed by entertainment.

But why is that bad? Well, entertainment itself is not bad, but what is being communicated through so much media and entertainment is. Consider the access to ungodly things that such high quantities of media grants to anyone with a smart phone or TV. Consider these statistics from BBC, (http://www.bbc.com/news/education-36527681):

 

The researchers questioned 1,001 children aged 11 to 16 and found 65% of 15- to 16-year-olds reported seeing pornography, as did 28% of 11- to 12-year-olds. They also discovered that it was more likely for the youngsters to find material accidentally (28%), for example via a pop-up advertisement, than to specifically seek it out (19%).

 

This is not to mention the worldviews that are being expressed and triumphed in almost every popular TV show and youtuber there is. What does this mean? Entertainment is discipling our students. And not in a good way, but rather it is teaching them how to be more and more like the world, and less and less like Christ.

So what does this mean for a parent? Throw away all access to any media? No! Well, not necessarily. Do what it takes to help your student fight against sin. If they need entertainment taken away for the sake of their eternal soul; well I think the decision is obvious, even though it may not be easy. But really what this means for a parent is that you need to know what your student is watching, reading, looking at, and posting. They may not be doing anything unhealthy for them; but if they are, they will need your help to overcome it. If you know how they are being entertained, then you can talk with them about what is Christ honoring and what is not. You may have to restrict some things! But that is just like keeping a toddler from touching a hot stove. Parenting has not ended just because they are older. It just looks more like conversations than the word “no.” Finally, do not assume that your student is not being enculturated by media. From middle school and up, if they spend any time with people their age, then they are certainly being exposed to worldviews and content that is competing with their devotion to Christ. But with this knowledge and with Christ on our side, we can make disciples of this generation who will be well prepared to reach the lost in their own and in the next generation.

In Christ,  Brian Van Doren 

 

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